Since we create our realities with our thoughts, beliefs and actions, feed her your own cards. Stuff them full in her mouth. You are the master, she is your student, let her follow your rules; conform to instructions. Her silence will allow abundance of all kinds to freely enter your life. Play her as though a kid, with the love, king, spade and circle cards. Sometimes pull out the joker cards to suddenly send her feet off the ground. Throw them all in. Fight for you!